The most practical, sound advice about change (including retirement) that you’ll find anywhere.From the desk of Hugh Wiley.
Dear Friend: Imagine yourself being challenged by a change…a job change including retirement, a divorce, a marriage, children leaving home, a death, a change in your health perhaps. You feel the fear, the uncertainty, the dread of it all. How can you handle it? Now imagine that you have been given the opportunity to speak with a wise counselor. From the first words you share together, you feel his wisdom and sincerity. You relax as you sense that this person has an understanding that can guide you, that his wisdom comes from his deep wealth of experience and his perceptions. His first words welcome you to explore what this change provides. He reassures you how normal change is and helps you realize that you have made many successful changes before You feel yourself becoming more open to some possibilities that you could not imagine before.He continues by explaining how fear limits your thinking. You understand the forms of fear: guilt, anger, anxiety and how you can transcend them. From his examples, you can identify your patterns. You try an exercise he suggests and you are excited about the energy that is freed up as you have a deeper understanding about yourself! You find you have the freedom to act differently if you choose.You feel more powerful.“During my 25 years of counseling I saw how the fear of change could stop people, just like you, from fulfilling their dreams. But it doesn’t have to be like that.” Hugh Wiley Next he asks about your vision. What do you dream about, aspire to, desire? Together you explore your values, interests and personality traits. You feel an unfolding inside you that you compare to a fresh rose bud opening in a warm sunny morning. From deep within you unearth possibilities that thrill you. You feel more connected.Your discussion continues. He asks: What are your beliefs about your vision? Will you allow it to unfold? As you work with the answers, you discover ways to allow this vision to blossom. He asks you how you value yourself and then the two of you explore your strengths, your wisdom, your gifts.You find that you have developed a deeper sense of love for yourself.Finally, this wise man shares with you some ways that others have sabotaged their change. You identify some strategies that you have used before and now you know how to move beyond those old destructive patterns.You realize that you have all the tools to create and relish a full life.If you are looking at retirement, your children are having job changes, or marriage, or divorce, the process of change remains the same.The gift that you get from this wonderful book can also be shared with everyone in your family. What a service at such a reasonable price! Chapter-by-chapter Dancing with Change will teach you and help you in many ways:
Learn how to turn change into an opportunity.Click here to read an excerpt from Dancing With Change. What readers are saying.
“I love this book! I enjoy that I can start anywhere in it and find much to relate to. Taking the time to do the exercises and look within has helped me grow and allow myself to let go of old beliefs that no longer serve me well. I read parts of it over and over again, always seeing something more. I feel the honesty and warmth of the author on every page. Hugh Wiley has opened himself up allowing us to see his vulnerability as he experiences life and ongoing growth. The practicality of his words of wisdom, support and the genuine love he feels for others is on every page, gliding us gracefully as we uncover that which holds us back from reaching our potential. I eagerly anticipate the next book.” Debora H., marketer. “Using your book, I changed jobs and doubled my salary. Thanks for this book. I keep referring others who are going through change to find their way through with your clear guidance.” Susan M., graphic illustrator. “I’ve used pieces of your book to coach my clients. I find it wonderful and insightful. ” Doreen C., professional coach. “You have made complex topics simple and easy to understand.” Dan C., resort operator. “I’m going through a big change right now, I find it is written for everyone, it’s so easy to understand and use.” Susan T., retailer. “ I keep it by my bedside for easy reference.” Brenda L., therapist. Dancing With Change is now available in electronic format. You can download it to your computer and read it immediately. Click Here to order Dancing With Change from our Secure Server. Copyright 2004-2008 Full Life Seminars Ltd. |